In the context of boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, it is a social stigma that it should not be taken as seriously as of marriage. It must be remembered though that most successful marriages depend on how well one intensely knows his/her mate when they’re in the former stage of their relationship.
Men and women have distinct roles in making a relationship work and since most young relationships ended with girls being left behind, here are some of the few tips on how to keep your man persistently heel over heels in love with you:
1. Appreciate him with his appearance, abilities, and character. Just like women, men also like to hear things that make them a lovable person especially if it is from his loved one e.g. cheer him in his basketball game.
2. A man needs support. Moodiness and discouragement are common to a man. A woman has the power to restore his self-esteem. When he needs an ear, give it to him and for some time, do not try to rebut. You can tell him that you believe in him, he can do it, and you’re just there for him no matter what.
3. Always be attractive. You must ensure you are beautiful both in appearance and in attitude. Always remind him of the things that made him fell in love with you.
4. Respect him as much as you want to be respected. How is respect measured? It is conveyed verbally and non-verbally. Disrespectful words and action can make him feel like a stupid. Do not ever do it in public, you might not want what will happen next.
5. Do not act as if you are his mother. He will eventually rebel against you and might want his independence. Do not treat him as a baby or a child, treat him as an adult who is capable.
6. Accept the fact that you are not the same. Men and women will never be alike in anything. They are born with different characteristics and traits. Do not try to change anything about him without his permission. You are not from the same womb or kin. Let him realize his failures but let him be the one to do something about it.
7. Always keep in touch. Nothing is impossible with an open communication.
8. Be his recreational companion. Be an expert in joining your boyfriend in doing fun activities like going to a beach, playing basketball, or anything, but remember to put limitations.
9. Give him surprises. There is nothing wrong in hitting the first move in showing sweetness. Write him love notes, smile and wink at him, and think of things that will make him appreciate you.
10. Be his best friend. A lover can easily leave you but a best friend might find it hard. Have fun with him like having pillow fights, cooking together, getting along with his casual friends and the both of you will get along really good.
11. Pray together. Once God is between the both of you, nothing and no one can make you apart.
At the end of the day, you need not to be perfect, just be you, the woman he fell in love the first time.
There is no perfect formula to keep him stay but you have the power to do so. Problems may arise but you must keep strong. Remember, a relationship stays because two people are willing to make it happen.
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